无题

一会儿思索，一会儿沉醉；
一个人烦躁，一个人体会；
盼望过，也绝望过，却无法彻底放弃；
好比死后挣扎，迷茫的，徒劳的；
无奈的心情比上忧伤来得更深刻，更难以抒怀。

发现了自己的渺小，发现了世界的残酷；
很多东西并不是自己能够掌握的，更别妄想要驾驭之；

活在自己的世界太久，己难分真实假象；
你希望美梦被惊醒吗？
回顾过往，发觉幻想太多，
就像为自己编写小说，设定梦寐以求的情节，
独乐乐的享受是难以形容的。

另一种说法是每个人应活在自己的世界里，
只有坚定的活在自己的世界里，才能做完一些事情；
若一颗心放出去，面对众多标准和概念的干扰，
该如何走路大概都是一个问题；
一条狭窄的小路走到黑头，胜似在人群熙嚷的大广场里游荡徘徊。
在广场里若只学会游戏和娱乐，失去方向没有目标，而那个孤单且坚定的人却已经上路了。

人生如梦，是是非非分不清；
黑白之间必有灰，也没有所谓的对与错；
个人基础很重要，必须持续不断的磨炼；
根基打得好，房屋才能建得高，建得稳。

Quotes to Myself at this moment

"Things will happen in your life that you can't stop, but that's no reason to shut out the world. There's a purpose for the good and for the bad."

"Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen."

Instead of choosing a simple life without discovering oneself, i rather spend time on discovering myself, at least i would not regret till the end of my life. Yes, if I have chosen the first one, my life would be so much easier with less challenge, less risk and even less uncertainty. But i kept asking myself: Is this the life that I want? I admitted that there's like a bump start in my career because there were so many things that i wasn't sure of. But after going through the stages, I understand myself more as I know what I should put a NO and what I can put a YES. 

"In order to discover new lands, one must be willing to lose sight of the shore for a very long time."

Friends always say I am stubborn in some sense. But I believe that I can achieve in what I want if I put a hope on it. I made some changes on mindset, just like when you are coming to a dead-end, why not just make a turn and you will soon find your way out. 

"It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not."

Meaningful Quotes

Dedicated to all my friends and readers:

Quotes from Chicken Soup Book

Everyone loves a good miracle story, the Chicken Soup book provides more than 100 true stories about counting your blessing and having a positive attitude. 

If you have ever read this book, you would know how 'precious' the book is. I found out some meaningful quotes from the book I read yesterday -- Chicken Soup for Your Soul.

"You have to be yourself. Be very honest about who and what you are. And if people still like you, that's fine. If they don't, that's their problem". 

"Face the thing you fear, and you do away with that fear".

"Whatever you are doing, love yourself for doing it. Whatever you are feeling, love yourself for doing it."

"First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to".

These quotes are really useful to me particularly for my own self-assessment and improvement in every aspect. I hope it would be helpful to you too. *wink*

Deep & Meaningful Quotes

When you see a man of worth, think of how you may emulate him. When you see one who is unworthy, examine yourself.
Confucius 

Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings.
Ralph Blum

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.
Groucho Marx

 
People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost.
Dalai Lama 

"Each day is a new canvas to paint upon. Make sure your picture is full of life and happiness, and at the end of the day you don't look at it and wish you had painted something different."